tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post4880760474272335093..comments2023-08-09T12:26:07.061+01:00Comments on The Third...: Cross-Roads3rd...http://www.blogger.com/profile/13719722967344319274noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-68765937273170378442008-05-19T09:16:00.000+01:002008-05-19T09:16:00.000+01:00I totally don't reccomend it. The man is supposed...I totally don't reccomend it. The man is supposed to by Islmaic law provide for each wife their own house. I dont recall hearing any of the prophet's wives sharing ahouse for a good reason jealousy and anger will eat at you more. You can't ignore the person that is right there next to youALL DAY EVERY DAY, with your husband every day. I'm not anti-P I'm just practical and telling you that He is the man and if he wants the ladies he needs to shell out the dough for own houses. Simple as that. If he doesn't have the dough why the Heck does he have 4? I would totally NOT agree with this. What if one day you want to slack off in cooking and so does she and then hubby comes home and finds no food and two lazy wives.... very difficult situations to deal with dear and a whole lot of heart ache when it would prolly not be there as much in diff houses.American Muslima Writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17494763839971976761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-6596909801117025042008-05-13T08:44:00.000+01:002008-05-13T08:44:00.000+01:00@UmmAbdur-Rahmaan - LOL! It's not funny actually b...@UmmAbdur-Rahmaan - LOL! It's not funny actually but it just made me laugh when I read it, because we have talked about that and how that would be. I imagined myself avoiding THE door, and not going to the bathroom if the it was close to THE door.. LOL, <BR/>So we figured the house needed to be spacious enough for us to feel comfortable. But money needs to be in place and the location should be right. So we don't know yet whether its gonna be feasible. <BR/><BR/>@ourrewardsawaitus - yeah, that has crossed my mind as well. On the hand you get to see him more, but you are alone with him less.3rd...https://www.blogger.com/profile/13719722967344319274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-4810976229969822532008-05-11T10:27:00.000+01:002008-05-11T10:27:00.000+01:00I do not suggest it but that is just me. I could n...I do not suggest it but that is just me. I could not deal with it...the whole knowing what he is doing behind that closed door...Ok I making myself sad...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-48317357502539319182008-05-10T03:52:00.000+01:002008-05-10T03:52:00.000+01:00I don't recommend it...not at all. As you've read ...I don't recommend it...not at all. As you've read from my blog I'm in my second "stint" of living with my co-wife (my goodness...it's been a long time since I actually referred to her that way). You will miss your "own" time.Our Rewards Await Ushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773505084145959305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-2454628304756013752008-05-08T20:50:00.000+01:002008-05-08T20:50:00.000+01:00Hi and welcome! To respond to your question:We are...Hi and welcome! To respond to your question:<BR/>We are not rushing into this, so if we go through with it, it won't be within the next month or anything like that, but we are seriously considering it.<BR/>It should be something positive and constructive. We don't want to ruin things by making hastily decisions.3rd...https://www.blogger.com/profile/13719722967344319274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-7660977207683026512008-05-08T14:36:00.000+01:002008-05-08T14:36:00.000+01:00So did you all ever follow through with this idea ...So did you all ever follow through with this idea or did it just stay right at that... an idea.Jannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08971750847129508931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-13572567673543741542008-05-08T00:02:00.000+01:002008-05-08T00:02:00.000+01:00OH my....I'd never agree to move into one house......OH my....I'd never agree to move into one house.....Safahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03753208969449031396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-34488958942810464302008-04-20T19:12:00.000+01:002008-04-20T19:12:00.000+01:00cool!! nice to meet u here.. :)cool!! nice to meet u here.. :)3rd...https://www.blogger.com/profile/13719722967344319274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-88666903131288355752008-04-18T03:05:00.000+01:002008-04-18T03:05:00.000+01:00I am anxious to see what you decide and how this w...I am anxious to see what you decide and how this works out for you. I found your blog on the Big Love message board. Looking forward to more posts!!The Pastoral Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09794404741706646741noreply@blogger.com