tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post8565597889176529465..comments2023-08-09T12:26:07.061+01:00Comments on The Third...: Rants.. what happened with sessual revolution?3rd...http://www.blogger.com/profile/13719722967344319274noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-46261132003127777382008-12-19T06:40:00.000+00:002008-12-19T06:40:00.000+00:00There seem to be more people than one would think ...There seem to be more people than one would think that give in to that type of thing. <BR/>I question the husbands that do this to their wives/partners but then since I'm not in their shoes or know anyone to question I don't.<BR/><BR/>Anonymous - polygamy isn't about sess! Believe it or not I understand where you come from, the physiology has occasionally bothered me and we're middle aged people! If we were younger it would be a more difficult issue with me, don't ask me why because I dn't know. This is another one of those inexplainable things one deals with in plural relationships.new#3https://www.blogger.com/profile/08502107324722814488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-62743627445389156162008-12-17T14:54:00.000+00:002008-12-17T14:54:00.000+00:00Intimacy should be about the We not ME in my book....Intimacy should be about the We not ME in my book. It needs to be reciprocated in order for the relationship to be deep and special. You come across a little selfish when you stated it as you did. There's something rather self-centered when you say it's all about you. For your husbands sake I hope that wasn't really what you meant.<BR/><BR/>Being reluctant or wary doesn't mean "forced" as you seem to imply about these women and their action to give their SO's idea a whirl.<BR/><BR/>These women obviously cared enough about the relationship to be open-minded and willing to explore the interest of their SO. It's really no differnt than a woman trying fishing or hunting if her man is into that sort of thing. I think that it shows a willingness to meet your partner half-way. If she likes it well, more power to them, but if she doesn't at least she showed the desire and effort to enhance the relationship, and hopefully her SO will appreciate her efforts in accommodating him. <BR/><BR/>Whether you want to admit it or not your situation is no different than what the husband/boyfriend is suggesting to these woman. You're basically sleeping with three people as well as all their previous partners from a physiological persepctive.<BR/><BR/>Considering your lifestyle I'm surprised at your closed-mindedness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4772985086227453517.post-4127562583483205412008-12-15T02:30:00.000+00:002008-12-15T02:30:00.000+00:00Another esseedingly essellent choice of topics 3rd...Another esseedingly essellent choice of topics 3rd. :)<BR/><BR/>Was your main issue with the article (1) the morality of the particular activities involved (e.g. treesomes and partner swapping), (2) that one partner was pressured to do something they didn't like, or (3) that it was always the woman compromising to please the man?<BR/><BR/>I think open communication about what each partner wants is a good thing, but love, respect and the desire to please your partner should work both ways. Let's say husband would like to try out sesstoys (and has no moral issue with them), but is not sure how his wife might respond. Should he keep his desire a secret or make it known? I think it's probably a healthy thing for him to talk about it with his wife, but there should be no pressure if she does not want to do it. However, she may <I>choose</I> to do it (even if it doesn't particularly excite her) to please her husband. There is pleasure in bringing your partner pleasure, but it has to work both ways.<BR/><BR/>(Just for the record, this <I>is</I> a hypothetical. Personally, I don't see the point of sesstoys when God gave women so many, er… um… wonderful parts to play with. Choosing my words carefully to avoid those dreaded pop-up ads. ;) I hope my post isn't overstepping any boundaries.)Donaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17570022381385517383noreply@blogger.com